Sorry for my absence

[Parker Hale 0]

Just wanted to explain why I have been away for so long.

It is difficult to put into words at this time but my sister Lisa commited suicide in South Africa some time ago and I have been over there trying to find an answer as to why.

Everything has had to take a back seat while I try and figure this out and not sure how long it will take.

Not sure what else I can say at the moment.

Parker Hale

[Mr_Tea 0]

I´m sorry to hear that you have such difficult problems.

It should be clear to anybody that the real live comes in first place. There is nothing more you have to say.

I wish you good luck for the future.

[mr burns 133]

that sucks

i hope you find the answers your searching for

[Billabong81 0]

Man, I'm really sorry to hear that . Hope you find the answers and the holiday somewhat helps with the pain.

[Supah 0]

I've been in that place too man but luckily my sister's attempt were always unsuccesfull. All the best man.

[gandalf the white 0]

i wish you the best of luck, and hope you will find your answers.

[Cpt. FrostBite 0]

english is not my language, so I find it hard to find the right words of support for you, but I really hope you will get you answers.

I feel sory for the fact that your sister was so desperate to do such a thing. I hope that the answers you seek will help you understand her and also help you to have peace with it

[IceFire 0]

Man, I'm really sorry to hear that . Hope you find the answers and the holiday somewhat helps with the pain.

The holidays never help with the pain. It only makes the pain worse.

Regardless you have my deepest sympathies. I can't imagine how difficult this must be.

I have no siblings.

[IceFire 0]

english is not my language, so I find it hard to find the right words of support for you, but I really hope you will get you answers.

I feel sory for the fact that your sister was so desperate to do such a thing. I hope that the answers you seek will help you understand her and also help you to have peace with it

I think the answers as to why someone commits suicide never brings peace or closure, only more confusion and anger. The reasons for suicide are never comfortable ones.

[brgnorway 0]

I'm so sorry to hear!

However, I also feel this is far too "intimate" to air on a forum like this and I'm not sure if I want to hear about people's personal life and problems unless it has a general interest.

Please don't be offended by my thoughts as it wasn't meant to have such an effect.

[Cpt. FrostBite 0]

english is not my language, so I find it hard to find the right words of support for you, but I really hope you will get you answers.

I feel sory for the fact that your sister was so desperate to do such a thing. I hope that the answers you seek will help you understand her and also help you to have peace with it  

I think the answers as to why someone commits suicide never brings peace or closure, only more confusion and anger.  The reasons for suicide are never comfortable ones.

the reasons are never nice, but when you know the reason you can at least understand the dicision. That's what I meant.

[Placebo 29]

Parker as someone who has lost a close family member I sympathise with your loss, myself and the other moderators offer you our most sincere condolences.

I hope that you and your family can move forward from this tragic event and comfort and support each other. Whilst my circumstances were different the important thing to remember is the memory of how your sister lived, not how she died.

If you need someone to talk to you're more than welcome to PM or Email me (Placebo@bistudio.com). I do feel however that the off topic forum isn't the appropriate place for this discussion and so with the greatest of respect to yourself and your loss I am closing this thread.