grafstz

I want to play arma2 with friends on a non-dedicated server but cannot. Issue: Games show in server list with grey question mark under ping. Once I click on them the ping goes 2500 in red (un-pingable). Connection failed on joining. Arma2CO Version: V1.62.96061 (server to connect to is also this build) Windows Firewall Enabled: All arma2 exes are added to incoming and outgoing udp/tcp Router: ASUS DSL-N11 2302-2305 is forwarded ISP: Orcon - Does not block ports. Windows: 7 What I have tried: Router is port forwarded. Firewall has exceptions for the ports and applications. 2302-2303-2305 all are Stealth mode when checking GRC. I have double checked SPI settings etc, though all firewall features on my router are disabled. I have verified my games files via steam. If anyone has any ideas please let me know, if you want to see netstat results or anything like this let me know and I'll post em. I have tried for about four days and I've hit a wall... PS I have a router/modem. Only that component between me and the interwebs. Thanks all :)