@GranQ
Always remember the No 1 rule regarding discussion fora on the net:
Freedom of speech is a lie.
Fora are private places. They aren't democracies, they are dictatorships. Either you play by the rules set forth by the owners or you get the hell out.
So far, I have not seen a single forum where it is handled any different. True, some may have more lax rules than others, but in the end, not my that much.
While in an ideal society free discussions would be what one should aim for, in the real world, sadly there are always trolls, idiots, spammers and the assorted rest of the scum of the internet to painfully remind you why you need a mine field, barbed wire and attack dogs to protect your forum. ^_^"
For the record, I would go for open, honest discussions too, but know that likely is an unattainable goal.
Out.
EDIT: Sickboy (get better soon, best wishes to you ) was faster.