I have deactivate the Battle eye on my server and than i could join.
But Spy Glass detected me as cheater.. so i have done some at the fn_initSpy.sqf and than it works but only at me...
my friends see the server but cant join because connection fail after 10sec.
I have check all my ports and configurations but i had no idear!
http://www.altisliferpg.com/topic/3202-arma3-update-122-spyglass-update-required/
The link where i found the help to get the server running to a half :/