@Marc15yo
ArmA2 engine relays on and utilizes much more CPU than GPU, so upgrading your Phenom to for instance Core i5 could give you a nice boost. I have i5 also, but don't expect miracles, you will still get fps drops to 20-25fps, especially in campaign, even in OA.
If we could have a hypothetical view on Crysis 2 engine (Crysis 1 also) then we can see how the engine should be designed&coded. Yeah, it's probably the greatest engine in the game industry the world has ever seen. It's capable of rendering huge terrain with a lot of not scripted AI, really great physic, covering land/water/air units/environment and in the same time providing such unbelievable visuals and motions, scalable and undeniably well optimized. It just uses the all resources you got at the maximum level.
Just have a look on this video (let's say it's in the ArmA universe) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-7ME7rkAkQ&feature=player_embedded and think about how great it could be to see ArmA in such engine...