Thank thank you. It was like you reading my mind. If ofp guys have replay to this indeed frustration will have the effect that all players will be gone in the moment a simular but more mp friendly game arrives. I speak not about rejoing the slaugher with a keystroke but as "reenforcement" and I am happy to wait 5 minutes becasue this keeps the dm type of players away.
I spend roughly 1 hour trying to play for 1 hoiur actually playing and still have trouble with getting stuck, loosing connection perheps because the server guy calls it a day and i still hope that ther will be a bunch of "official servers" established. Emotionally it has been from wow THE GAME to ...