Hi Mate, fully understand
this is the way Bohemia Interactive manages their pre-release alpha projects.. Same story we had with DAYZ..
I am angry too, I have daily crashes "GPU hangs" despite of water cooled GTX4090, lol, sometimes lag under 25 FPS with highest settings although Arma Reforger doesn´t use that top graphich settings or shaders like Cyberpunk or RDR2..
But what is more annoying is that Bohemia cannot afford at least a couple of fast official servers, most of vanilla official servers crash and hang several times a day. Playable is only EUR....42 server with Everon. Modded servers crash more due to unoptimized mods. @BOHEMIA - Pls add stable vanilla servers! We can send you some EUR for support ^^
There is very long way to go with all the bug fixes and game fixes like AI squads etc.. And taking into account the deveopment speed of BI, we may see Reforger beta on 2028-2030 or so...
Anyway, I am enjoying the game already now with all the bugs and missing stuff, so advise you to be patient or come back some years later, when there is at least a stable alpha.