How to use the changes in Mods saparately

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I like model, ironsight, sound and some anime of FFUR but i hate it's explosion flame also some black error smoke occured when missile shot to the beach (between land and water)

I like ECP Explosion effect and it's cursor

I like the smaller text MP menu and map style of WGL5

if i use ECP as a main or base mod source

So.. How to collect each thing i like (from other mod) then add or replace to the base mod (ECP) but still remain the things i already like (Explosion effect of ECP)