Stizza

Not sure if this is the correct place to post this and if it isn't please point me in the right direction.. Anyways lets get to the point.. I wanted to make server launcher for my arma 2 servers like for example make a programme in visual basic and when someone presses the join button it will load arma and put them into my lobby.. I was wondering if anyone know how i could learn to do this and if so how / where can i learn to make this? Thanks in advanced