In my opinion, that's the point of the game, you do stuff you wouldn't do in real life. If you just want to do what you do in real life, open up the editor and create exactly what you do in real life. I think it's much more interesting to fly gunships and do dangerous maneuvers because I wouldn't get the chance to do that in real life. I see these as positives, and more reason to play. For example, in DCS A-10C I don't just take off, fly about a bit and land. No, I barrel roll and drop bombs and make myself go into a stall at low altitude to practice recovering from it. I wouldn't do any of that in real life, because it's dangerous. But in the simulator, I have that opportunity. That's entirely my opinion of course, and I respect that you may feel differently about it to me.