How to get a girlfriend?

[Hardliner 0]

I will be 21 this June. Hooooow delightful.

When I posted all that I did state that I was in a bad mood. I am not a completely dark evil lifeform(well maybe). I just have two sides(ok 3 sides), sometimes I am good, sometimes... well you know the opposite. Also most of the time I am just nuetral, recently anyway, in a not bothered state. I am not really the anti social type hell I was at school! But right now I am just in a nuetral way when I don't get like I did the other night when I was here.

At that party there were people outside too I just stayed outside because I liked being out. All the young ones around my age were inside yeah but there were older people outside and I did talk to them. Most of the time I have nothing to say anyway so there really is no point in trying to talk to others. But yeah I did choose to avoid the young ones because I been with young ones before and I just do not like it much.

But when it comes to girls I just do not bother because I do not see the need. Like I said before I can not be bothered worrying about relationships and emotions. Actually when I was waiting on the train station today I did think about it but them thoughts never last long. It is a temperary thing, relationships do not always go this way. They can be complex and damaging. I hear of breakups and heartbreaks and people crying over it. It makes me glad I have no experiance in it. While you may say that I am looking at the bad things here these are not the only things. I am not like every other human being out there that wants to do something that everyone else does. Yeah I know I am only young I been told that many times before and everyone says "one day it will happen". I get sick of hearing that from everyone. When me friends say it I say "I don't want one!" its like I am exspected to do it! I am not hostile with girls when I talk to them (VERY rarely talk to any at all) I am just in the state where I am quiet and have not much to say.

But all this crap about looks and everything else just does not go for everyone. I have talked to females before and some have told me that they like guys that do not go on about sex all the dam time, yeah I know this is not the case for everyone. While I do not know if this statement is true I have been told that some girls like guys that are not out seeking a girlfriend or trying to show off how big and strong they are OR boasting about things. Some girls are put off by this act(can't say I blame them). This information comes from female sources too.

[AntiPasta 0]

heh I actually got two gals to like me (well kinda, at least talk and sit next to me) because of my TI83+SE calculator andits PuzzPack game

[Scorpio 0]

When it comes to girls, all i do is just find an interesting subject to talk about (one that they like), joke with them, be romantic (comment on their looks/features), be like friends every day, swap phone numbers, organise a date, and so on and so forth. The main thing you have to do is just keep in touch with them, talk to them every day.

[Scorpio 0]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (AntiPasta @ June 01 2002,22:20)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">heh I actually got two gals to like me (well kinda, at least talk and sit next to me) because of my TI83+SE calculator andits PuzzPack game  <span id='postcolor'>

just because of that? They must be nerds too

[madmike 0]

When it comes to girls I just end up getting pissed out of my head then they come up to me but it always end in heartbreak

So then you find another one

Which end in heartbreak

[Tovarish 0]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (madmike @ June 02 2002,00:40)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">When it comes to girls I just end up getting pissed out of my head then they come up to me but it always end in heartbreak  

So then you find another one

Which end in heartbreak <span id='postcolor'>

Ah the vicious cycle. It does get old

[Scorpio 0]

Yeah, i know what you mean. When you go out with them, you have loads of fun in the beginning, and then you suddenly run out of things/tricks up your sleeve and/or you have arguments. A relationship is never perfect, it always has one or two arguments.

[Scorpio 0]

Damn...i was thinking Hardliner was 16 or something...but 21?!!!!!!

You have GOT to be joking...You still havnt got one, you should be ashamed of yourself, you unsociable no-hearted artificial being

[Pete 1]

what a sad thread it became....

life is not all about finding a girlfriend..atleast not for all.

and even when you do find a girlfriend..it is not normal that it is perfect, but you should try to make it as close perfection as you can.

girls can be the most perfect creatures, and they can be firebreathing dragons...if you can appreaciate both sides in a woman, then you have found someone you can live with (or learned how to live with women).

[Die Alive 0]

Last night, I went to a strip club, showed my stack of cash, and I had many, many girlfriends for the rest of the night, and into this morning. Too bad none of them can cook breakfast for their lives.

And for you's not able to enter one of these clubs, just get Duke Nukem 3D, go to the 2nd level, and at the end you'll know how it's like in one of them (minus the pig cops and cat people).

Shake it, baby!

-=Die Alive=-

[Sadico 1]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">you unsociable no-hearted artificial being <span id='postcolor'>

The biggest problem i have with girls is that when they don't know me very well, they think i don't give a damn about anything, because usually i'm not very expressive. U know, it takes a lot to change the expression in my face. I don't like when people knows exactly what i'm thinking, so i've learned not to show my feelings. Also i've got too much pride so if my gf gets angry at me and i think it wasn't my fault, i simply don't call her. Lot's of gals think i'm gonna call them to beg pardon even if it wasn't my fault, but i never do. Having a girlfriend is not that important for me unless the girl is really wonderful.

[kegetys 2]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (Sheriff @ June 01 2002,11:28)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">How about getting a life?<span id='postcolor'>

Where can those be bought from? Preferably mail order please

[Tovarish 0]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (Die Alive @ June 02 2002,02:10)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">Last night, I went to a strip club, showed my stack of cash, and I had many, many girlfriends for the rest of the night, and into this morning.  Too bad none of them can cook breakfast for their lives.

And for you's not able to enter one of these clubs, just get Duke Nukem 3D, go to the 2nd level, and at the end you'll know how it's like in one of them (minus the pig cops and cat people).

Shake it, baby!

-=Die Alive=-<span id='postcolor'>

Yep, those girlfriends you can depend on. You know what makes e'm tick. But it can get kinda expensive .

As for eye candy in Duke Nukem....man if you're that hard up just go surf for some decent porn on the net

[Renagade 0]

Ah yes internet pr0n, stupid sites where theres a picture of some ugly chick getting it in the ass by some ugly guy above a sign saying u need to sign up for this adult verification crap with ur credit card to stop minors seeing nude stuff yet its already showing u stuff that minors aren`t meant to see

[cybrid 0]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">Pete Posted on June 01 2002,19:55

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what a sad thread it became....

life is not all about finding a girlfriend..atleast not for all. <span id='postcolor'>

Thats right, life is about scoring. After you have done that you can truly call your self a man.

[Sheriff 0]

Wake up and smell the flowers girls. It's easier to get laid than to find a young girl that's looking for a long term relationship. Teenage girls go through boyfriends like disposable hand towels, Unless you find that real special person what's the point?. You always end up getting hurt because you obviously expect too much too soon and why? Because you lack experience, You post stupid threads on forums and idolize the OFP Mom. Stop thinking about relationships, commitment and have some fun for godsake. Talk to a girl and don't expect something, You aren't looking for a relationship. And maybe just maybe you might end up screwing this gorgeous sixteen year old on your parents brand spanking new pool table, Manwhore!.

[Pete 1]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (cybrid @ June 02 2002,06:22)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">Pete Posted on June 01 2002,19:55

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what a sad thread it became....

life is not all about finding a girlfriend..atleast not for all. <span id='postcolor'>

Thats right, life is about scoring. After you have done that you can truly call your self a man. <span id='postcolor'>

what makes a man to a man is different for all of us..for me, sex is not it, sex you can buy from prostitutes...sex you can get by lies and empty promises, you can even get sex by force...and even if you get sex in a more normal way, it does not change anything...you just put your dick into some girl, after you are done, you are the same as you were before you put it in...

what makes a man to a man, is the way he thinks and behaves, the morals he has and follows.

i know a guy who would crawl in shit to get a girl, he tells all kinds of lies to get some girl to bed and then writes her sexual performance results in a small book next to her phone number...he always goes for young girls with no experience, its very easy and he has no intentions of staying with anyone.

when he has his short relations he treats the girls as shit and only wants one thing..."to score", totally lacking compassion or any feelings, girls who leave him will not stay as friends...

he might have been (according to his own words, which i dont trust) with 35-40 girls now (he is 27) and no longer relations.

is he more of a man when he been with many, than someone who only been with a few, but stayed with them as long as it been possible and had totally honest intentions?

i go by quality over quantity, ive been single for two years once, simply becouse the girls i met during that time didnt give me the feeling it would last if i started anything with them...the gf i have now i feel will last forever.

am i less of a man than my friend, who only goes for sex?

scoring....like a football game, people like you who see it as a sport make me sick....and you call yourself men?...youre just rats in my opinion.

[USSoldier11B 0]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">how the hell do you find these genuinely horny girls? If youre a guy, the case is usually always that you need them more than they need you, so whats the trick here?

<span id='postcolor'>

Dunno, this has been a rather new development over the past year. Like I said, girls dig a comfident guy who is willing to communicate and can please her sexual needs. She wore me out today. Three hours of sex and four orgasms(her). I'm going to bed.

[Hardliner 0]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (Scorpio @ June 02 2002,00:48)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">Damn...i was thinking Hardliner was 16 or something...but 21?!!!!!!  

You have GOT to be joking...You still havnt got one, you should be ashamed of yourself, you unsociable no-hearted artificial being  <span id='postcolor'>

I already said I do not need one. Well not yet anyway. Probably will never need it. For most people its a want not a need. I am not like every other guy that goes out searching for girls. Some guys can be pathetic when going out chasing after them. I just do not worry about it. Every other guy seems to think he needs one or just because everyone tells him he needs one, or to show off, OR of course so he can "screw" her. Not every male is horny out to screw girls.

Anyway I suppose theres no point in going on about it so I will stop there.

Yeah I am a unsociable no-hearted artificial being

[Sheriff 0]

You make girls sound like a chore, You gay mate?. Personally i'm not insecure and a loving relationship isn't a must but once you experience love first hand it's the best thing on this god forsaken earth. On the other hand i do indeed chase beautifiul young girls because i'am obviously attracted to them, I'd never pass up a chance for alittle fun, And that's the flavour of the month so far. But when you do find that special girl you just can't put it into words, It's something you have to experience first hand. One life and one chance to live it my friend.

Manwhore!

[GFX707 0]

oopz

[WKK Gimbal 0]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (USSoldier11B @ June 02 2002,12:23)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">how the hell do you find these genuinely horny girls? If youre a guy, the case is usually always that you need them more than they need you, so whats the trick here?

<span id='postcolor'>

Dunno, this has been a rather new development over the past year. Like I said, girls dig a comfident guy who is willing to communicate and can please her sexual needs. She wore me out today. Three hours of sex and four orgasms(her). I'm going to bed. <span id='postcolor'>

If that is true then why the urge to type it in a game forum...?

[Sheriff 0]

When you prefer the younger inexperienced girls one doesn't particularly have to worry about alot of 'issues' and such that arise with the more mature women, Thankfully!.

[GFX707 0]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (WKK Gimbal @ June 02 2002,15:54)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (USSoldier11B @ June 02 2002,12:23)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">how the hell do you find these genuinely horny girls? If youre a guy, the case is usually always that you need them more than they need you, so whats the trick here?

<span id='postcolor'>

Dunno, this has been a rather new development over the past year. Like I said, girls dig a comfident guy who is willing to communicate and can please her sexual needs. She wore me out today. Three hours of sex and four orgasms(her). I'm going to bed. <span id='postcolor'>

If that is true then why the urge to type it in a game forum...?      <span id='postcolor'>

[Hardliner 0]

No I'm not gay. I would die before going down that path. I just can't be bothered like I'v said so many times(so it seems) I don't hate them or anything like that. And yeah I have never experianced it and am likely not to in the near future. I don't go out looking for them but if I happen to meet one that suits maybe I don't know. But I doubt it.